The Almost MeToo Moment: 02-20-2018

Today’s outing was freaking fabulous, and the only places I went to was the Dentist Office in a medical building and then to the Scottsdale Mall.

Agoraphobic Outing: Scottsdale Mall

While waiting in the said room, without the Scientific American magazine that I had planned to take for a shield – I was hit on by an Older White Man. Verbally flirted with in two ways that I find utterly bizarre; and the encounter was entirely at conversational level within the lobby.

I am calling this a successful outing because of this following conflict was successfully not only de-escalated, but quashed by me at the waiting room, and then a salesperson encounter at the Mall for the funeral industry.

Although, my Mom at the clinic end, could hear that I was speaking

and during my encounter with the three individual, 2 white men in their 60s and a white woman who appeared in her 70s and spoke with the softened Brit accent of living in Canada over time.

Gotcha: The Hat Trick

The Three Hat Trick

Gagging: The Canadian Hat Trick Joke Structure

 

I wasn’t paying attention to either of the 60ish decade male at the other end of the waiting room, and had been joking about how many buckets of KFC the world was from a self-solving problem.  (no intended reference to the current UK shortage, a news item I learned about later, for clarify of wordage reference reading.)

The taller of the two men said “young miss at the end of the bench”

I had been blankly staring at the mounted tv screen and there was a group talk about the large cylinder fish tank; and likely verbally auto-responding the data that I knew, the recent power outage, 2 fish left, eels to be added by the fish service guy.

So I made the mistake of laughing and saying thanks, but I’m 50, not a miss.

He took that for permission for the bizarre tactic one: complain about his work benefits plan, list his major financial assets and tell me he’s 60.

“Be glad you have dental, most people don’t, it needs to be added to the universal health care.” and I looked blankly back at the tv, with it’s infomercial dentist commercials, pop culture celebs who quit dental school to be celebrities, and how celebrity lives are improved with dental devices because that’s the key to better acting apparently, teeth that don’t match the health/life of the character, and most dreary American history pertaining to dentistry – Paul Revere, the famous rider blacksmith despite training did dentistry in the that most scary of medical eras, before the idea of sanitation, germs or professional ethics was known or thought of- explaining in a way that anyone can do anything as long as somebody pays; waiting for a particularly stupid item to recycle, so I could make fun of it to an audience of three people I would never see again. ‘

the two men began to complain about the MeToo Movement ruining everything and soon there won’t be babies, alternating with look at all the Celebrity Sluts who display what we’r not allowed to look at.

The one who’s resume flirting and treating women as buyable golddiggers in the first place, without invitation is basically whining that he can’t enjoy pornography in public – in a Dentist waiting room at 10 am in the morning, and he is supposed to be a 60 year old adult male with a mature sexual understanding.

I reminded them of the Richmond Fire Department male employees sabotaging the footgear equipment of female employees by filling them with dog shit meanwhile there was an actual alarm that meant the department could not actually respond to. Men have to learn how to share the workspace.

A lesbian firefighter faced disgusting harassment at work. She won her …

Yeah, that’s not okay, they both hangdogged.

“The RCMP Class Action” I only had to say on the next breath.

They both swallowed so hard that I am not sure that if they had tonsils that they were not as crushed as the testicles now crawling inside their body cavities, as indicated by their shift in body language from manspreading on the benches with 2 feet of space between them, to closed legs and crossed arms and appearing suddenly farther apart although the butt clenching the seat certainly suckered them into place.

then, round two.

the one who hadn’t flirted and tried to return to normal conversation

first by bashing on foodbanks and poverty, so I said I remember when food banks were a temporary band aid solution of 6 months in the 1970s. and now it’s a charity industry in 2018. Then I said the word “Mincome” and both men flinched and instead of bashing on the economic brackets below their own level, in a room of strangers with the elephants being named in the room, the men switched to gold courses vs agriculture

from food banks to actually feeding people, shifting to safer ground

I agreed that golf courses were the least best use of land and the worse use of water.

everyone agreed on the environment. a nice safe big word that can mean most anything.

Failed at Flirting and sulking silently 60 year old Man then took a pot shot, and referred to this BC news event; he even said “they got rights, they should get back in the closet”

He kept saying “I’m not prejudice, but these two gays”

he then complained about the hetero-normative pose, which also give me pause only in that  we LGBTQ should be creating our own archetypes instead of aping the heterosexuals; so digusted was he that he canceled his newspaper subscription.

“You mean :  Vancouver-West End MLA Spencer Chandra Herbert and husband 

 

 

the shock of my naming, including the MLA title of Provincial Politician in British Columbia, Canada, so when his bigotry was not validated, he continued to tirade the transgender gender whine, and seriously his premise of flirting is to complain that women object to being treated poorly, gays should be hidden to not threaten/tempt him and men becoming women is too much for his brain to maintain his cognitive dissonance, making his fear shame turn into lashing out, desperately seeking validation of his prejudice from people he is prejudiced against.

I said, given how much men and women hate each other, I don’t know there 7 billion babies on the planet now; and people need to get over transgender, that’s been around since the 1950s medically.

by that time, my Mom was finished and I got to leave on that mic drop slam dunk

#MeToo and #WeToo is #UsToo

Saturday, Feb 24

Afternoon Social With Spencer Chandra Herbert MLA

Come down and enjoy an afternoon with the man with the biggest heart-on for the West End. Get an update from Chandra Herbert on the government’s progress and plans for 2018.

3–6pm. The Junction, 1138 Davie St. Free event. Info on Facebook.

Talking with Heterosexuals about The Closet

and only now do I wish I had added, and a lot longer through history and across many cultures, not just in theatrical cultural productions. but that would have been too many concepts for a person who measures the whole world by their particular personal appendage. Sad for him that I also know that a person complains about what they most desire.

Rape Culture 201

rape memes or “why dinner means sex”

Writer Coinage: Dudebag

but mostly I wish I had said, it’s no surprise to me that there are now people who do not identify as any gender, given how said genders behave towards each other.

CensorshipWatch: Yet Another Angry White Man Projects his Rape Fantasy

The Dark side of the Bodice Ripper: The Romance of Rape

anyway, at some point in that group topic, the commercial I was waiting to make fun of played.

Saleman Smiler Guy breaks his tooth in a bike accident and his dentist tell him it’s going to decay. So it does and his life suffers and then a friend says, get your dentist to do an implant. Which he does, and his life is solved insert happy family of Smiling Dad with black hair, Redhead Wife and two blonde children.

Which, despite having seen the commercial before, I hadn’t noticed the cartoon family’s hair; so I pointed out, why it took  friend and not the dentist, which he had apparently not seen for two years since the emergency – which speaks to a lot of people’s experience of not having health care and only dealing with emergencies

I don’t think the tooth was the real cause of the not smiling, nor not smiling the decline in sales of this fictions person; leaving aside the being sold a service that one is already buying too.

 

RCMP v Women: Class Action

Dykewriter Action Update

Canada Declassified: Doomsday Cults

Understanding Criminal Acts vs Terror Actions

Anyway, the next stop was to the Scottsdale Mall, were I mailed the last part of my new RCMP Class Action law firm submission.

The Fire Hatrick: Going So Beyond Will

For the hatrick: SCORE ME

Humour Hatrick: The set up, the reveal, the reversal

My Mom was chatting with a salesperson from a local cemetary.

They are now selling cremation urn up to 4 pedastal sized stone cupboards.

The family has a few urns and dust collector is undignified for ancestral dust.

My Mom gathered information and I said, we just need to get one of those coffin slots and fill it up. (Bob’s Your Uncle seems Canadian-ly appropriate)

The Saleman grimaced at that math and said Policy prohibits that.

Arbitrary rule, I replied. Cheaper by the Dozen, theatrical pun intended.

He started to explain the policy and I shook my head no and said arbitrary rule by a business.

I told him that liked that company who wanted to mix ashes into fireworks and have a display, but the City of Vancouver said indignity to human remains (criminal code of Canada language), so they didn’t get their business license, meanwhile, there was the American one who’d furnace broke and they didn’t repair it and no one at the power company noticed they weren’t paying bills for 20 years until the police discovered the mass grave of build up of people who’s families paid for ashes.

His face paled and his breath shallowed, his eyes rolled in his head up down, flicker seeing the industry’s generational shift evaporating

never mind the afterthought of mine that funeral and divorce lawyers tend to be the rebound guys, but those kinds of thoughts were not the ones flickering across his mind, they were the math kind and a time’s running out awareness that is a special kind of ironic for the industry marking it’s various ends.

Feeling a little guilty at having unsettled him, I gestured with one hand at the backdrop display of images of the cemetery.

“I like the multicultural aspect of your site”

he shifted back to concerned saleman, soothing and smooth.

then the productive part of the day that’s in person was done

and we walked and then went home

Health Care that Heals and Helps

What to do about Terrorism?

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Protecting Rights for People

Transgender rights are being targeted nationwide with ballot measures & bathroom bills

It is hilarious to me that there has NEVER been a problem with trans people using the bathroom in this country until now. If these laws pass, what do they want me to do as a trans man? They want me, a fully transitioned trans man, to go pee in the women’s room? With my muscles and my beard? Isn’t that creating the very problem they SAY they’re trying to avoid? The people behind these bills are morons. They CLEARLY haven’t thought ANYTHING through about this.

 

You’re a woman. You didn’t transition to anything and you aren’t a man. Ergo, use the ladies room.

 

Clearly you are unaware of reality and modern society

you’re not a person, just a troll

they can only think with their shivering insecure penises that they have shame over

which is why they are so emotionally inflamed

terrified to see the people they most desire and seek attention from.

more when LGBTQ don’t check out their junk than when LGBTQ do, eh?

 

You’re a woman. You didn’t transition to anything and you aren’t a man. Ergo, use the ladies room.

 

Clearly you are unaware of reality and modern society

you’re not a person, just a troll

 

We’re all people. I’m a man and so are you. The commenter above is a woman. This will always be true.

 

I am not a man, and anyone who denies others personhood

don’t get that consideration

you are a Troll on an LGBTQ site.

nothing you post has truth or merit

 

You are a man and there is no such thing as LGBTQ.

 

Troll, the user Be Love is a different person than me.

Nina is a woman’s name, as most names ending in the letter a are.

I have been mistaken for a man in person

I am a 50 year old Canadian Dyke

and you are a white hetero troll

on an LGBTQ site, so as much as you don’t want to believe we exist

we’re here and queer

and you are a gross closet case with a serious case of the jealousy

if you don’t think queers are real, why are you seeking attention and validation from us, eh?

don;’t tell me, I already know that being prejudiced in public is the permission to do the very perverted thing in private

it’s part of the misfiring of the religious impairment of brain functioning.

also, the limitation of dick thinkers who obsess about other people’s genitals, arising from their know inadequacies.

I know how threatened you are

because I am that castrating women most men fear

but if if helps you to think of me a man

that makes you even more insecure

your choice, how emasculated do you want to be?

 

it is bizarre how strongly people cling to mental illness (religion)

it’s the everyone pretend it’s valid that remains bizarre

demanding that religion be respected, while ignoring the real world impact

how much less suffering would we have in the world, if money/time and passion were spent on things that helped

rather than hoard and hunker down in self ghettos, waiting to use the word that instructs in sword use with the modern update of guns

I asked my Sunday School teacher once, why christians were not nudists in the woods avoiding material goods

and apparently, that was too first century cult practices which lead to them being lion chow, resulting in the last 10 centuries of them being lion feeders,

it is little wonder that a tv show called “Kids are people too” was more appealing than church.

Among man’s greatest fears is the fear of the unknown. They’re only comfortable around other people that express the exact same way they do. They are only capable of accepting other people that drink the same koolaid they do. Men fear women. They know what we are really capable of. Women fear men. We know they lack self control.
Religion as it exists today is derived from a male privilege social construct specifically created for the sole purpose of elevating men and enslaving women.

CBC (Canada’s Radio Station) had a segment back in the 1990s about a study of gender fears, and 1000 men and 1000 women were asked, what do you fear the most from the other gender. heterosexual study.

the #1 men’s answer was “being laughed at”

the #1 women’s answer was “being murdered”

and, more often than not, those are related cause and result.

indeed, and “goddidit” is, at best, a placeholder answer

god of the gaps, that science shrinks shrank shrunk

from the sub-atomic particles to the current understanding of universe dimensions, to identifying when particles turn to waves; to seeing almost back to the big bang with telescopes; and going from fossils into genetics and predicting where we can find the bones of the missing ancestors

it is curious in the information age, so many eschew education

choosing to use technology memeing bronze age ideology.

And… now we have the return of the “flat earth society” to add to that list.

they recently announced chapters all around the globe

without any of the irony

Seriously?! I hadn’t noticed them until that rocket dud showed up in the news. Do you think they have people rewriting books for them to match their philosophical views of the world? I can just see it now, Journey to the Backside of the Earth, Around the Rim in 80 Days.

godbots, they are not really people, even if biological units, are using a science device that is an invisible power to spread bronze age ideas.

worse than the anti-science think tanks against some aspect of science is the John Templeton Foundation, set up to compete with the Nobel Prize for science – but only if you pervert science to valid religion and guess which one they picked?

worse, real universities are allowing that funding.

You might like the documentary series Around the World in 80 Faiths, it’s one for each continent.

“godbots” that’s another good one I haven’t seen before.

“John Templeton Foundation”… obvioulsy I need to get out more.

Do those guys burn effigies of Euclid, Copernicus and Galileo?

Godbots is one that I coined, and it’s one of three in a spectrum:

Godbot, Glandbot and Brainbot.

words with self evident meanings

that describe people into types

based in what they base themselves in

Godbots would include idealoges

Gladbots would be hedonists or emotionalists

and, as they say about people who know three things, eh?

one is a religion work uniform worn by women

the other is a woman in a heterosexual religious life.

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Policing Public Bathrooms

Bathrooms and Elevators

The Rights Door Done Right

Power and Prejudice:The Lawful Urination

Private Rights vs Public Safety

Understanding Hate Crime 101

Advocating Rape is a hate crime

Crime vs Hate Crime: Mac’s

How Hate Crimes become terrorism

Godbot Hall of Fame: Jim Jones

Hate and Person vs Social Crime

Public Hate Crimes vs Crimes of Hate against the public

A fine Line: Hate and Crime

Global Tourism vs Bronze Era Godbots

Kevin Sorbo: From Greek God to Godbot

Godbottery: Islam Edition

Trolls, Sock Puppets and Godbots

Glandbot Trolls: A Primer

meanwhile

sounds like the entire republican party needs to be arrested for conspiracy against america

2 years of obstructing the supreme court should be evidence in and of itself, given they then broke the rules when in office as government of the day.

Trump’s Russia tweets, translated

 

 

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Visible vs Invisible Minorities

There is now a Trump supporter dating site. It bans gays & bisexuals.

so, they did not specifically exclude lesbians

what would Mary Cheney think?

Lesbians, left out again, no one seems to realize we exist, eh.

right wing makes space unsafe for everyone else

then they whine no one wants to fuck them

Kinda like feminists then. It’s always the ugly ones that tend towards that career path.

 

this is why natural selection keeps your kind’s numbers to a minimum

have you ever been with a woman who wasn’t paid or crying or both?

 

That one will call you a sockpuppet troll – whatever that is. It comes up with new labels for those who refuse to feed its warped, nonsensical political agendas in here

 

Trolls who create their own friends

to create a sense of mob validation

as they churn and chum,
trolling for other people’s emotions
wallowing in their own crappulence

lone troll or sock puppet, makes no difference

the contempt you hold for others

is returned threefold to you

 

they can create new labels, they will never have good arguments.

 

They’re tenacious at remixing the same shitty track over & over again to wear us down.

 

says the troll

 

I’ve dragged that Nina on since early January, they can try to wear me down but I’ll still argue my point even to the point of repetition.

 

circle jerk, indeed

plus copy and paste

sock puppet or bot?

 

‘Caitlyn Haiku’ is yet another manifestation of that brainfart.

 

completely separate person,
which anyone with browser skills can determine

 

 

 

Conservatives actually breed more than liberals do in the USA. Hence why the left needs it’s immigrants.

 

that’s what happens when people live in fear of being outnumbered

and can’t do math and think demographics denote value.

 

That’s what happens when people settle down rather than pretending they are teenagers until middle age.

 

breeders overpopulating the planet and reducing everyone’s quality of life

are not mature community contributors

breeders overpopulating the planet and reducing everyone’s quality of life

humans have gone from packs n prides into herds; now swarms

passing on their stupid genes to stupidier memes

education is the cure: religion is a ponzi scheme

first they burn books, then people

Lest We Forget

you demand the people you oppress to agree with you

and you think you have a winnable position?

you are the collective problem to everyone under any of the LGBTQ2.

 

new labels?

is this your first day on the internet troll?

you use technology you don’t understand

while claiming you are smart

Poe’s Law about extremism informs

about dealing with the genuine thing

fundamentalists have no sense of fun

lack of humour is a mental illness red flag

pedantic literalists unable to literary

bumping a book, buying bull

you do know it’s all poetry, porn and propaganda

dead sea scroll edition

and

Lest We Forget

it’s your demographic that’s the draftable goto for boots on the ground

right wing makes space unsafe for everyone else

then they whine no one wants to fuck them

 

Kinda like feminists then. It’s always the ugly ones that tend towards that career path.

 

this is why natural selection keeps your kind’s numbers to a minimum

have you ever been with a woman who wasn’t paid or crying or both?

 

This is why natural selection stops your kind from breeding at all.

 

if we’re unnatural how do heteros keep having queer babies?

many LGBTQs have offspring by means available to adaptive tool making species

I should have said sexual selection, natural diluted the impact of the second line

repeating with edit:

this is why sexual selection keeps your kind’s numbers to a minimum
have you ever been with a woman who wasn’t paid or crying or both?

 

 

Nina Trygg is a troll. Ignore that one too.

 

trolls are people who speak against the community users of the site with the intention of causing distress

you speak against the site’s purpose and community audience

using words you don’t understand

in a predictable bully format as to be a bot.

Trump will address hate group leaders & far right activists for second time

Can we all stop pretending that he’s even pretending he’s not what he obviously is?

 

Any dipshit could see what Trump is when he was a candidate. He is just what he has shown us he is – right from the beginning and well before his candidacy. Obviously, Republican dipshits refused to believe what we all were seeing.

 

the dipshits did understand, he was to be their head dipshit

he is pure greed, bankrupt x6, married 3x and President Bone Spurs

by the family values patriot party

 

I forget … what was the reason that Bill Clinton and Barack Obammy didn’t serve in the military?

 

Republicans are the party with the patriot/military fetish

 

So, that was the reason that Bill Clinton and Barack Obammy didn’t serve in the military?

 

Trump claimed bone spurs to avoid the draft, while playing university sports – he had no excuse and he frauded the government then and continued to by tax avoidance, something that does not demonstrate any love for America, to cheat the system.

 

“… continued to by tax avoidance .. ” you have proof? And I don’t mean the 15 year old return that Rachel Bat-shit-crazy Maddow came up with.

Bill Clinton and Barack Obammy both loved America so much that they didn’t even try to serve?

 

I cite public knowledge of Trump’s own bragging about not paying taxes that you refuse to acknowledge

meanwhile, you make character allegations against former presidents who are not relevant to 2018

as you demand overproof of why you are disagreed with

when you disagree-ability is all that is needed to understand

you are a troll for Russia, sad if you are an American patsy.

Russians get paid and Americans are doing it for free

says a lot about which system worked.

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The Rights Door Done Right

Transgender rights are being targeted nationwide with ballot measures & bathroom bills

There is no excuse for the degree of hate coming from the self proclaimed righteousness that is contemporary hypocrisy…ooops…I mean Christianity.

 

hating others who find their religion baseless is kinda their thing

 

You’ve got that right. I was raised southern baptist in Texas. Then, my father converted to the JW’s and life got really interesting. I went from living around a ‘braise the lard and pass thu amunishon’ crowd, to one of even less authenticity, fake pacificity, paranoid self righteousness and secret domestic violence. To me, they are all the Sith. There’s just more of them.

 

it is bizarre how strongly people cling to mental illness (religion)

it’s the everyone pretend it’s valid that remains bizarre

demanding that religion be respected, while ignoring the real world impact

how much less suffering would we have in the world, if money/time and passion were spent on things that helped

rather than hoard and hunker down in self ghettos, waiting to use the word that instructs in sword use with the modern update of guns

I asked my Sunday School teacher once, why christians were not nudists in the woods avoiding material goods

and apparently, that was too first century cult practices which lead to them being lion chow, resulting in the last 10 centuries of them being lion feeders,

it is little wonder that a tv show called “Kids are people too” was more appealing than church.

 

Among man’s greatest fears is the fear of the unknown. They’re only comfortable around other people that express the exact same way they do. They are only capable of accepting other people that drink the same koolaid they do. Men fear women. They know what we are really capable of. Women fear men. We know they lack self control.
Religion as it exists today is derived from a male privilege social construct specifically created for the sole purpose of elevating men and enslaving women.

 

indeed, and “goddidit” is, at best, a placeholder answer

god of the gaps, that science shrinks shrank shrunk

from the sub-atomic particles to the current understanding of universe dimensions, to identifying when particles turn to waves; to seeing almost back to the big bang with telescopes; and going from fossils into genetics and predicting where we can find the bones of the missing ancestors

it is curious in the information age, so many eschew education

choosing to use technology memeing bronze age ideology.

Bathrooms: Private vs Public Access

Policing Public Bathrooms

Fatty Fatty 2 by 4, Can’t Get Through the Bathroom Door

Bathrooms and Elevators

Power and Prejudice:The Lawful Urination

I have used ONLY correct (female) toilets/restrooms on 3 continents — Europe, Africa, and South America — for years and never any issues, never asked for ID You evil bigots are trying to create problems where none exist. However, if you CAUSE a problem for ME personally, you will have to KILL me or beat me up to stop me. Got it ? Jennifer, female model and trans female model. xx

 

I’ve no doubt there’s a redneck or two who will be happy to accept your challenge. Jeez.

 

me either, it’s why we have to stand together against those who would genocide us, even as they clutch their buybull as a string of pearls

Attention, all law enforcement officers in Massachusetts, Montana, Kentucky, Iowa, and North Carolina — if I am ever stupid enough to enter the primitive United States again, and I happen to be in any of these states — and in fact I have a lot of family members who live in Massachusetts and some family members who live in North Carolina — the ONLY way you will stop me from continuing to use the correct (female) toilet/restrooms and new-clothes fitting rooms is PHYSICAL VIOLENCE — you will either have to beat me up or MURDER ME DEAD to stop me. Got it ? Jennifer, female model and trans female model. xx

 

As I said above, I’m sure there’s a redneck or two who will be delighted to accept such a challenge, especially as you appear to be getting off on the idea of receiving a beating. Ugh.

 

twice you’ve said about other people enjoying doing a murder

so what does that say about you then?

 

It says that I fear Jennifer Lopezgomez has mental health issues, as she appears to be encouraging violence upon her person.

 

which indicates your failure to understand the posts made by her,

a woman who is able to stand her ground against persons seeking to harm her for going about her lawful business, in a place where said person: Heterosexual males have no business being in

and when het males are the dangerous demographic that poses the most harm to men, women and their younger versions in the teenage and childhood development; have the least valid of all the personal opinions about women’s bathrooms.

Being bothered by that other people exist is mental illness, it is clear who is the person with the problem is, troll.

and it’s not Jennifer Lopezgomez

so says a person who also gets to use the women’s bathroom.

and would not allow any harm to befall her, by direct action or in court testimony.

I’d even hold the door open for you,

it’s the butch femme thing that the heteros have lost in their battle of the sexes, in which, sex lost.

 

I’m not arguing against transgender individuals rights to use the bathroom of their choice. I don’t have any issue with that.

I do have a problem with idiots who encourage violence against their own person, vis-a-vis,

“you will either have to beat me up or MURDER ME DEAD to stop me. Got it ?”

It looks like the deranged Lopezgomez has a martyrdom complex.

Haven’t enough transgender women died already without encouraging this shit?

 

well, now you make a very valid point; which was overshadowed by your post’s tone. Certainly no one should put themselves in danger, always live to educate another day, safety is paramount.

there are enough actual threats without anyone make a situation worse than it might otherwise have been; even in the 1990s, there were some public streets where lapel pins went into pockets.

certainly the number of people who have faked attacks on themselves are not helping the community and are undermining actual victims of crime.

Private Rights vs Public Safety

Issues: Telling True From False

The Military vs Boots on the Ground

Although it is a bumpy ride now, it will come to pass that transgenders will have the right to use the bathroom of their identity, not the one they were born with. I find it difficult to understand why some people have a problem with a person using the restroom, especially a trans-woman who goes into a stall, shuts and locks the door to relieve herself. It must be the religious Republicans who are concerned because they know how to cheat and sneak into the restrooms to perform sexual acts that are inappropriate and illegal. Larry Craig, an Idaho Republican Senator, was caught peaking through a peep hole in the men’s restroom at the Minneapolis Airport. It is on record that more Republican politicians have been caught and arrested for sexual misconduct than there have been transgenders.

 

It’s the dishonest mentality. They think that if they are sneaking around, doing secret things behind everyone else’s backs that everyone else is guilty of the very same things. My grandmother would have called it “the guilty chicken”.

 

it is why they project onto others,

what they are guilty of themselves

and disbelieve everyone harmed while defending the offender

water fountains then, bathrooms now

I have to wonder why heterosexuals, the majority, are so fearful that other people exist

everyone needs to pee

 

Well said! The heterosexuals used to think we gay guys were sexual deviates that hid in the bushes and attacked young men, at least back in the 1950s in Boise, Idaho. Fear needs to be removed from the heterosexuals’ minds using education that LGBTs are not a threat to them because we live just like they do.

 

Gratitude

mostly, I wish they’d stop projecting their sexual violence and sexual stupidity

just because they enjoy incest and rape, doesn’t mean that other people do.

they do not understand how horrifying it is that they cannot understand morals and ethics without a invisible sky daddy.

I am continuously disappointed by how many otherwise intelligent people stoop to such a low level of logic when it comes to the equitable rights of oppressed minorities. We’re using the same mental prowess that saw black Americans banned from white bathrooms due to the risk of diseases, violence, and crime expected to happen should they integrate. How far we have come, and still how far we have yet to go.

 

this is the problem of one demographic getting some rights and acting as if the rights line stops there

in the 1970s, the hetero women, after they got equal pay and abortion on legislative paper, threw all the lesbians who worked in the movement under the rights bus,

it speaks to the insecurity of the movement

they got some of theirs, didn’t help and now, 2018 is

the 1960s, civil rights, 1970s women righs, 1980s queer rights

all in a 1950s/1980s global nuclear threat with a climate change denial chaser

and the same mentality of not leveraging technology and forcing civilizations to reinvent what is already patented, so we don;t have to deal with industrial driven climate change

Communicating across gender, about it

Gender Expression is a spectrum

Power and Perception: engendered

Cartoon Syndicates: The Gender Gap Tooning vs OpEd

Elvisworld: Gender and Jenner

The Gender Divide Rolls

Vampires: Writer’s Gender Take Away, eh

Constructing Gender: Is it merely fashion or fashionable behavior?

Writers and Gender: SE Hinton

Genderized Roles or are Roles just Universal?

Listening: The Gender Divide

Girls: The Garbage Gender?

GenderWorld: Penis Anxiety

Harassment – A Gender Guide

The gender communication divide

Wild West Test: The Gender Divide

The gender gap of clothes

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Persons vs Opinions: Guns

Whether one calls the item a weapon or a tool, it’s only purpose is death when used as manufactured.

5 things Republicans say about gun violence & why they’re wrong

When it comes to mass shootings, the problem isn’t Republicans or the NRA. It’s you.

I am slowly and sadly coming to the conclusion that the United States will never do anything about gun violence and mass shootings until every single American has lost a loved one to such actions.

What if we changed our way of looking at guns? Let’s say it’s OK for someone to own as many automatic weapons as they want. What is severely controlled and regulated by all levels of government is ammunition. In reality, it is NOT the gun that kills; it is the bullet.

Another way to curb automatic weapons would be to come up with some measure of what is a “necessary” gun and what is a “luxury” gun and tax the hell out of luxury guns. “Necessary Guns” would include those needed by people living on a ranch in Wyoming; in a small town in Michigan’s upper peninsula or in Maine’s woods. It would include those needed by people living close to the alligator ridden terrains of the Everglades or Louisiana bayou. It would also include guns used for legitimate sport hunting which I define as hunting used for both developing a variety of skills and contributing to the communal good – culling large deer herds or killing a predator preying on livestock. Everything else: tax it at 4-500% If we can do this with tampons, cigarettes and booze, WhyTF can’t we do it with other products?

 

no, the bullet or gun alone do nothing

it take a person to combine, point and shoot

If the writer of this piece were honest, he would say out front, that someone should get to killing a couple NRA execs every time there is a school shooting. Or maybe a kidnap and ransom demand with finger delivery to show the seriousness of make real legal change to the gun laws.

No it’s not our fault, we are not the ones who make the laws and enforce them, it is the government of the USA, and if we want to live in a just society, we have to follow the laws of it. The current way things are working now, is going to bring about a solution that solves the problem. People are starting to care, and the important ones are caring, the kids, they are the ones who are beginning to make demands and that is one group that has no allegiance to anyone.

 

“If the writer of this piece were honest, he would say out front, that someone should get to killing a couple NRA execs every time there is a school shooting”

people advocating reasonable gun laws would undermine their entire platform by advocating that

better that the NRA and gun companies are sued in class actions, and held accountable for their product use,

as Star Trek Captain Kirk said “we can shoot…not..to kill..today.”

How does a person call them-self a law abiding gun owner and reject any attempt to have law about guns?

it is not about what the criminals will do, it’s about what any person will do, when it’s the only tool they learn how to use.

guns in the house increase suicides and accidental deaths, usually of a family member returning home late.

and, for home defense, how many guns does a person reasonably need?

 

Is it your business? Worry about LGBT students who come back and kill their classmates.

 

Actually, “I-G,” it is everyone’s business. We are talking about the survival of our children. Nina raises some very reasonable questions. Instead of attempting to answer them, you engage in ad hominem attack and try to distract us with a completely different issue. Can you point to a single case where an LGBT student has come back and killed their classmates? If not, shut the hell up!

 

it is everyone’s business

mass shooting impact every demographic

and Heterosexual males are the leaderboard problem demographic

Sock Puppet of Troll Marathon

Why is America Angry?

CensorshipWatch: Yet Another Angry White Man Projects his Rape Fantasy

A White Man Threaten To Kill Me

Heteros vs LGBTQ2: More Victim Than Thou

Hetero Friends with Queers: Benefits

Star Wars: White vs Lesbians Debate

When Gay was a White Person Thing

The NWO White House

Stop Making White Embarassing: Can I Get a Hashtag

December 6 and Civilian Mass Shootings

Canada: Parliament Hill Shooting

Suspect Mail and Packages Indentifiers

Media Workplace Shooting Broadcast over Social Media

Mass Shootings reach Critical Mass

Mali Mass Shootings: Media Method

Mass Shootings: at work, rest and play – the new normal?

The recent school shooting shows that we need a better Consoler-in-Chief

does it matter what the democrats didn’t do then

when Republicans are doing nothing now?

This is like “preaching to the choir”. We know what a monster he is. It’s the people that refuse to see it that are the problem. And worse yet? The people who see it and still support him.

 

I think it’s clear that public schools know what they are signed up for.

Religion interfering in education, and return to duck n cover nuke drills and active shooters, bomb evacuations added to the fire drills. plus earthquakes in some place

wait, that would require people to understand earth sciences and climate to understand that regional weather is not connected to what humans do with their genitals or where they pee

from my original blog:

Chilling

The needs of the many will always surpass the needs of the few.  Anders Behring Breivik Shooter/Bomber on Friday, July 22, 2011 Oslo, Norway  I wasn’t going to blog about the most recent homeland terror assault, I didn’t even particularly … Continue reading 

Blame vs Responsiblity

Mass Shootings

Workplace Violence

True Fallacy

Psychopaths can’t laugh at themselves

Republican to Rethuglican

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Happy Chinese New Year of the Dog 2018

Went on a mall walk today at the City Central Mall, Surrey BC

I smiled at a few women and complimented various garment colour or patterns.

Getting mostly blank looks of incomprehension, both of why I was interacting and not understanding the compliment words. One Elderly woman had a lovely silk jacket with a number of animals around types of trees on it. I would nod and smile while pointing at their sleeve, then most would shyly smile.

Out of the Walmart (we only walked through, did not buy anything, I feel the need to explain, eh) into the mall itself – at the handicapped ramp between two short flights of stairs

My Mom with her walker at the top and an Elderly Man at the bottom with his.

“Walker Derby” I joked and mock crashed my hands into each other, as I used the right side stairs down to wait for my Mom.

My Mom had waved for him to go first but he had elegantly said “Age before Beauty.” as he waved my Mom down the ramp.

We both had a laugh at the reversal, so I didn’t even use a variation of the standard reply “Pearls before swine.”

Then, we walked around the T&T Grocery Store, and I was surprised to see so many Italian and Portuguese Products on their shelves – but I guess since the Pattison chain of grocery stores has Tesco from the UK, it makes international trade sense.

I was looking at a package with three Coffee Jelly large cups and three small creamer sized containers. I was reading the ingredients, various chemical names for sugar, concentrated coffee and, as they say, edible oil products.

An Elderly Woman came up to me and cautioned me that it contained a lot of sugar.

So we chatted for a while, she and her husband are borderline diabetic.

I showed her my diabetic wrist tattoo, and I also put the coffee jello back on the shelf.

continuing through the store, the Elderly Woman with the animal jacket walked near a young mother, probably her millennial granddaughter with her own baby in the grocery cart.

I smiled at the trio and the Grandmother  smiled and bowed slightly, the young woman surprised and then smiled cautiously. I just smiled and nodded, walking past.

At the counter, I wished the cashier a Happy New Year and joked that I would not try to wish her properly.

so, today was a good day. Happy New Year

Vancouver Chinatown Spring Festival Parade

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Golden Girls: a generational message

to every generation, there is a demographic

How the Golden Girls taught America about coming out & marriage equality

 

All in the Family was probably the first American comedy sitcom to openly discuss homosexuality and gay stereotypes as early as 1971. There was a ground breaking episode where Archie discovers that his macho, ex-football player drinking buddy at the bar is actually gay. Meanwhile, the effeminate friend of Mike and Gloria who Archie refers to as a “fag”, “queer” and “pansy” is actually a heterosexual.

I remember that, and Archie did a good job of acting out a straight guy’s shock! I had a lot of laughs with my, at that time, partner, and since 2004, my husband!

 

from that same era SOAP had Billy Crystal dating a football player in the first episodes, and then he had 2 storylines with woman romances, but he also had a lesbian roommate character.

also, SOAP and Golden Girls shared production staff and they redid some of the same around the table the floppy boobs and cheesecake gags.

MASH and Klinger in the dress; although a het character, did sitcom address the whole military regulations, the scary sexuality and not just the section 8.

In the pilot, they had CoCo, their flamboyant gay cook. He didn’t make it to the series. So much for coming out. Was CoCo too much for the 80s?

 

that Gay Cabana boy was supposed to be a continuing character and was dropped

yes, too much for the 1980s who did not want to imagine people over 50 having sex.

whereas, in True Blood – Lafayette became a tv character, who died in the first book.

Great article, but it’s not cool to call them “little old ladies.” That’s something they definitely were NOT. They were very healthy, pretty and active — don’t disrespect the girls!

 

that was one of the main jokes of the series when it aired

how seniors were made sexually invisible

It was a Maude/Mary Tyler Moore blurring

with Betty White originally supposed to be Blanche and not wanting to recreate her MTM character

and Rue already having been the ditzy neighbour, played the vamp instead

 

From what I can tell in the series, the plot device was Sophia’s retirement home burned down and she moved, taking over Coco’s cooking duties. There wasn’t a bedroom for him and without a job to do, he moved on. In the Italian version, he was stayed and he and Sophia shared the room with bunkbeds.

In real life, the decision to drop him was less about his being gay and more about wanting to have a show entirely about older women. The idea was for a series where women did not need a man about. Remember, married women had just gotten the right to work out of the house without the husband’s permission, have their own credit, and open accounts on their own only some ten years early, a show that was headed up solely by women was a revolutionary idea. Even today, name a show or movie where all the main characters are women, let alone older women.

I don’t think anyone was scared of having a man about who acted completely stereotypically gay because he would very quickly have found a beard if the network was threatened by his presence. Very special episodes are one thing, regular cast members are another. Given how invisible we were then, I bet the network didn’t even know he was gay.

 

that is interesting about the Europe version

Canada also sees less censored versions of American shows

and the few Canada shows that cross over get edited for Americans.

in the 1990s, a lot of Movies of the Week or Miniseries, were focused on sexual abuse which they would not even show in a clear it happened way, as if that was honestly addressing anything leaving it a question

and there was the a very few MOWs that dealt with Herpes and finally AIDs

so tv admitting people had sex, and then comes the Golden Girls, who no one wants to imagine them having sex, sex was for young pretty people

as it always is, when every generation think they invented sex, drugs and rock n roll,or were the first to be oppressed

, in the 1960s, no one expected two over the hills to deliver a breakout horror film Whatever Happened to Baby Jane

Ordering Cake and Eating It Too

Silence is neither sweet nor golden

Reboot Maude

1990s When Lesbian Chic had it’s 15 minutes

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