Thinking about Standards

Okay. Hello. My name is Nina and I am 45 years old and Canadian.

I have just come out of a long term, like 18 year relationship and I am waiting for my final divorce papers.

so I really don’t know what the etiquette is in countries about being clear or the degree of clear one has to be before you can … well…. flirt.

this really hasn’t been an issue because until recently, the only people who tried to flirt with me were men and that’s what block is for.

So I am asking folks – men and women, het or queer, whatever

state your age, your country – and your opinion about when it’s okay to flirt with someone at what stage of getting openly out of an earlier relationship.

I would like to get a sense of community standards.

and you know, this is a great way to revive my LezFlirt subblog.

I am pretty good at flirting but I am terrible at being flirted with.

it’s one of the more common complaints about me. sort of oblivious.

because you know, I never actually knew just how attractive I was

looking over my baby dyke photos. wow.

I totally understand why so many women at Simon Fraser University come out to me.

It went over my head they were coming on to me. LOL