Women tend toward flexuality

I posted this earlier on facebook:

 

oooh I was telling the story about Vicki Wagner in my Agoraphobic Life Coaching group

Vicki really encouraged me to take up coaching because … well. It’s what I love to do the most

teach and train people

but I was actually talking about how helping other people and connecting is what has been driving my recovery process and after Vicki I met Cali T. Rossen

who is an actor in Hwood – umm… Hey Cali do you go by actor or actress?

I have lost track of the PCing of jargon and what gender expressions is trendy now… bleah.. there’s a reason I stopped paying attention to entertainment

but Cali did something amazing and sang a song just for me

so I started a fan club for her

but I have been too shy to co-ordinate my efforts with hers the way that Vicki and I do co-ordinate

oh… I tagged her. okay. now I have to say that Cali is a het gal who is married

so my little fan crush on her is really not here nor there. I do not put people I actually know on my laminated list.

but I do really want to see Cali in this movie about Anis Nin. ….

 

oooh I was telling the story about Vicki Wagner in my Agoraphobic Life Coaching group
Vicki really encouraged me to take up coaching because … well. It’s what I love to do the most
teach and train people
but I was actually talking about how helping other people and connecting is what has been driving my recovery process and after Vicki I met Cali T. Rossen
who is an actor in Hwood – umm… Hey Cali do you go by actor or actress?
I have lost track of the PCing of jargon and what gender expressions is trendy now… bleah.. there’s a reason I stopped paying attention to entertainment
but Cali did something amazing and sang a song just for me
so I started a fan club for her
but I have been too shy to co-ordinate my efforts with hers the way that Vicki and I do co-ordinate
oh… I tagged her. okay. now I have to say that Cali is a het gal who is married
so my little fan crush on her is really not here nor there. I do not put people I actually know on my laminated list.
but I do really want to see Cali in this movie about Anis Nin. ….

 

 

but now… this is me:

 

but you know, when I think about it….

 

Most of the emails that I got from my original lezflirt site were from married het woman who had crushes on mom of their kid’s playmates.

 

I mentored 3 or 4 young dykes through their university years and 2 women in the US military. In fact, as I recall, the majority of the hits on the lesbian flirting site was American Military computers…..

but most of the people who asked me for flirting advice was to explore their sexuality.

 

and, when I was in my 20s, I worked in an adult video store that actually still around on Scott road or whatever number they are calling it…. as far as I know.

 

I remember getting this phone call twice:

 

Nina: Hello Video Store.

Man: Um. Hi. do women rent porn?

Nina: I have never rented to a woman. so I guess no.

Man: oh. um. what do women think of gay men?

 

Nina: Do you think you’re gay?

 

Man: yes.

 

Nina: Then what women think is not relevant to you.

 

Man: Oh. I never thought of it that way.

 

and a lot happier than when the call started.

 

sometimes it just takes someone that you give authority to to tell you what you already know or need to.