Relationship flag number 1
debt – retail therapy is out of control
There are some non-fiction programs that I have enjoyed watching.
What struck me the most in this show is that everything stems back to relationship problems. Communication – not only what but how – that is occurring or not.
Communication is the key to better sex, better flourishing, better nourishing and better finances.
The comments and jokes you make about your partner or your relationship become the truth. so make it a positive one if you want it to last and if not… why are you still there?
Relationship Red Flag number 2
You don’t have many or any interests in the same activities
it’s an effort to do anything together
Relationship Red Flag number 3
You don’t share the same goals or visions
or you can’t agree or coordinate
Relationship Red Flag number 3
Different Values make setting priorities
A few years ago, her show came to Vancouver to film.
The basic premise is that she does a financial assessments and rapidly determines where the money is going – generally on excessive hobbies, fan collections, entertainment and mostly escapism.
If the couple meets all the goals set for over the month, they win $5000.
I wanted to go on this show because something had to give.
combined with the other givens of my circumstances
it turns out
it was me
total mental exhaustion and collapse
too many balls in the air
no clear goal or purpose
just hoard for it’s own sake, a habit more than a hobby
so the lessons learned are what not to do
if you can’t be a good example
at least be an effective cautionary tale
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