in the middle 1980s I was looking at a celebrity photo book and I saw this image
I remember thinking, she’s a lesbian.
I felt connected to.
Edith Ann the Telephone Operator Character
but mostly I remember seeing her doing an interview on tv where she talked about when she was a teenager, that she was friends with an older woman who taught her so much
the lifehack I remember is a winter tip
when you are about to go into a building from the cold
blow your nose
that way, when you enter the store, you retain your lady demeanor by not having a runny nose